Feminism – the word which scares everyone.
Feminism – the word which is used quite often by women and quite less by men.
Feminism – the word which has its meaning clear but not for most people who follow it.
Feminism was required in the past centuries in the west when women had no constitutional as well as social rights.
Feminism is required in the present centuries in many countries of Asia and Africa where women still don’t have constitutional and social rights.
But, the third wave feminism from the west, is affecting the women in the east.
West is the centre of all the media and it says what it sees – third wave feminism. And the east believes what it sees, which is – third wave feminism. Result: Intersexual anger in the west, more patriarchy in the east.
But how can we end this?
Is there no hope?
Guys, there is a solution.
And no, the sentences earlier weren’t “intros”. They were realities which one should not forget to read.
In fact, when I was doing a research on this topic I saw that many “feminist” websites had written thousands of articles on “importance of matriarchy”. I’m like, girls, feminism means equality, not matriarchy!!
Now, if the world hates patriarchy so much, does it mean that it wants “matriarchy” (at least the third wave feminists want matriarchy, don’t they?)
So, Let’s focus on the “unheard” and “unnoticed” tribes/cultures of the world which are predominantly matriarchal..
These are ethnic minorities of each country who are practising matriarchy in a patriarchal culture :
- Mosuo’s of China.
- Minangkabau’s of Indonesia.
- Akan’s of Ghana.
- Bribi’s of Costa Rica
- Garo’s of India.
Why do they have matriarchal culture?
- These cultures support education for all.
- Women stand for themselves.
- Women raise a voice against the injustice done to them.
- Men support women in their fight.
What changes does matriarchy do there which is different from patriarchy?
- Due to matriarchy, these groups have :
- Fewer rapes
- Less molestation
- Caring people.
- A quite happy and safe environment.
All these things are really good. But is that enough for a country to be successful economically and socially? Do these groups have no problems? No.
These groups still have the same problems which patriarchal society have – poverty, corruption, etc.
Yes, we can solve rape problems by adopting matriarchy.But is that enough? Why don’t we hit two targets with one arrow? Is it even possible to control rapes AS WELL AS solve other problems too? Yes, it is.
The solution – NEUTRAL CULTURE
Is there a country which is truly feminist? Which maintains an equal culture?
Well yes, there are many countries doing that.
According to weforum, these are the countries which are the most gender neutral
Our main goal here is to discuss that HOW are we gonna make our countries gender equal. And here’s how these countries did it :
- By giving a good education to every citizen.
- By not focusing on religion.
- By embracing humanity.
- By stopping corruption and poverty.
- By embracing individualism when required and communal society when required thus making it difficult to have “stereotypes” about each other.
- By making their country strong enough to make humans live like humans.
- By giving justice to everyone.
If you guys have read about these countries, you will know that they have really good HDI and GDP. Which also makes them a developed country in a true sense.
And it’s not that these countries don’t have problems at all. But these countries have better healthcare and education which makes them less problematic than other countries. In these countries, there is a hope and positivity which our countries often lack.
So are you getting it? What these people did is that they :
- Brought a good government and the government did its work.
- Made their culture open to change and made sure everybody follows what is morally right and not just religiously right.
Basically, these countries made a cooperation of government and people and together solved their problems and brought EQUALITY and FEMINISM in its true sense.
We in our countries focus on complaining. We keep complaining. We never do anything to solve our problems. Which leads to people not SEEING change. So we only rely on media and we all know how much “correct” our media is. This brings anger in the west and more patriarchy in the east. Not saying that west is/was not patriarchal. But if we say that patriarchal means that men rule, then certainly men are ruling more in the east than the west.
All we need, is to stop complaining and start going in the right direction..
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